Have you ever heard stories about couples that have been married for 10, 15, or maybe even 20 years but feel like they don’t even know the person they’re married to? Or maybe you have a friend that says I just don’t feel connected to my spouse anymore, I don’t know if we’re going to make it. My husband and I have been in that situation before – I remember sitting in counseling with Carlton thinking I just don’t feel connected to him like I used to be. What happened to those intense, passionate, feelings that we had when we first got married? Was it that the newness had worn off, were we no longer compatible, or had we just fallen out of love with each other? Thankfully, the answer was none of the above…..the true issue was that we were lacking emotional intimacy! Like most people you’re probably scratching your head and thinking what the heck is emotional intimacy?!?! My husband had to google the term too so don’t feel bad!